Wanna cut through?

In the school district I grew up in, there were walkers and there were riders – those who walked to school each day and those who took the bus each day. I was a walker K – 8.

While it didn’t happen often, sometimes either myself or a schoolmate would suggest, “Wanna cut through?” This, of course, was an invitation for us walkers to cut through neighbors’ yards.

There was definitely adventure associated with cutting through.

7141424Which yards wouldn’t have a growling dog, that would chase you? Which homeowner’s yard could you dash through without being noticed? Which yard could you run through with the owner giving you a nod and not reporting your “cut through” to your parents?

There was also the realization that no gains were obtained by cutting through. Nothing was gained by disrespecting the understood, unwritten rules of the neighborhood – no cutting through yards. Nothing was gained by dashing through an elderly neighbor’s yard only to startle and frighten her. And definitely nothing was gained by tramping through dog dirt as you tore through a neighbor’s yard!

When you think about your big dream or your work, the prospect of taking the short cut is adventurously alluring. Alluring until the moment you realize nothing was gained. In fact, that adventurous short cut walked you right through a big pile of dog dirt.

Now that stinks.

Commit to taking the long way. Your perfectly, perfect self, your big dream and your work will thank you. Plus you’ll smell a whole lot better!


That big dream that’s been bouncing between your head and your heart. It requires inordinate support, attention and care. The business plan, the investors, the website, the elevator speech – that dream of yours can be one demanding woman!

When you’re going for your big dream, she isn’t the only one who is demanding. There are scores of other responsibilities and commitments ally vying for your time and energy.

The one gift you can give yourself in support of your dream is a good night’s rest – even the scientist and researchers agree with your mom on this one – 8 hours every night.

When you’re pursuing your big dream, that new initiative at work, or organizing the Girl Scout cookie sale, consistently obtaining 8 hours every night helps you be more effective in all of your endeavors.

So what’s keeping you from sleep? Put on the tea kettle and start winding down. Clean sheets, chamomile tea, cozy pajamas, no electronics (okay – that one is challenging) and a super dark room all set the scene for an early night to bed.

After all, no amount of caffeine can fuel your dream like the perfectly, perfect well rested you!

Sweet dreams!